Heya, Hubby. (I'm Not Ever Going to Call My Husband That...)

  My husband thinks about what he wants me to be like. I want to be everything he dreams of or will dream of one day. I like to think about him, but I like to think about knowing him even more. The following are dreams. . .

I want a man who can build things with his hands.

I want a man who can look past my failures and see the most beautiful woman he has ever known. 

I want a man who I can respect.

I want a man who will lovingly tell me where and how I’m failing and I want a man who will help me where and when I fail.

I want a man who can laugh at himself more than others, but I do want him to be able to laugh at others without worrying about offending somebody.

I want a man who will admit that he is scared, but I want a man who isn’t scared often. I want him to be the bravest person I have ever met, and I want him to be the most God-fearing man I have ever spoken with. I want him to recognize courage.

I want a man who writes. I care not if he is talented, but I want him to write because he wants to write. I want him to write about his thoughts and his observations and his surroundings and his passions, but I want him to voice his insecurities rather than write them, or learn to one day.

I want a man who does not care what other people think, but I do want a man who is caring.

I want a man my dad will respect greatly.

I want a man who is always learning. I want a man who will encourage me to learn, as well, and I want a man who will constantly teach me.

I want a man who wants adventure, and I want a man who will take me to adventure or who will make adventure out of everything.

I want a man who thinks more than he speaks.

I want a man who knows commitment.

I want a man who weighs more than 170 lbs., please.

I want a man who does not bring those around him down with negativity, but I want a man who does not run from the truth, even if it feels or seems negative.

I want a gentleman, I want a wise man, I want a kind man, I want an honest man, and I want a romantic man.

I want a man who is calming.

I want a man who thinks pregnant women are the most adorable things he’s ever seen.

I want a man who makes me laugh, even if he isn’t funny.

I want a man who finds new ways to tell me and show me that I am beautiful the more time I spend with him.

I want a man who loves children. 

I want a man who is very encouraging. 

I want a man who isn’t scared to lead.

I want a man who my family will absolutely adore.

I want a man who is hard-working.

I want a man who loves to dance.